Since both of you truly love each other, you two should sit down and have a good talk with one another. It's not about letting go everytime and thing that the other will lead a better life. You two need to come out with another solution, rather than the taboo that you both had been using.

All the best and hope things turn out fine. Sometimes it's impossible for one to even found the right one for his/her entire life. Since you've found yours, cherish it. Make a leeway for each other, live with each other's imperfection and accommodate with one another. There's no such thing as unfair.

I wish the best for both of you and to Zu, you've grown up. You no longer need us, that's what you said. You'll stand up on your own to solve all problems, we believe in you. We will not poke our noses into your relationship but again, if you need someone, we're just a phone call away.

Strive on.